"Buy it Nice, or Buy it Twice"

Finally a Tik Tok Trend that I can get behind! This one’s been close to my heart for over 15 years—long before it was trending (you can read a snippet of what put me on this path here). As things in my home need replacing, I’ve made a conscious shift toward investing in quality, long-lasting pieces. Think: one heirloom-quality knife and a single All-Clad pan at a time, a handmade broom crafted from natural fibers. I choose vintage when I can, opting for something with a story and better craftsmanship over cheap, mass-produced items destined for a landfill.

Am I perfect in this pursuit? Absolutely not. But like changing your diet or any other long-term habit, taking small, consistent steps leads to lasting change. As I learn more, I do better.

Lately, with the current political and economic climate (don’t worry—this isn’t a political post!), I’ve been thinking even more critically about where my money goes. I’m asking myself:

• How can I avoid padding the profits of billion-dollar corporations?

• How can I support small, local businesses and keep money circulating in my community, especially for my day to day products?

• How do I cut down on petroleum-based products in my home?

I thought I’d share a few recent, home-related purchases that align with this mindset—along with some tips I’ve picked up along the way:

1. Ostrich feather duster - I replaced disposable microfiber dusters with an ostrich feather duster. True, the dust doesn’t “cling” to the feathers like the synthetic ones claim to—but it also doesn’t knock over every book and trinket on my shelves. I chose a longer handled version to reach ceiling corners and fans (yes, I dislike ceiling fans too, but sometimes air circulation wins).

2. Cutting board conditioner that's made from non-petrol based products (mineral oil is petroleum-based).Caring for cutting boards and wood utensils is one of those things I didn't learn from my parents along with how to properly care for knives (don't worry, I am learning as I go).

3. Boars bristle brush I made a rookie mistake with my newly reupholstered velvet sofa and crushed the nap. A natural boar bristle brush, paired with a blow dryer on low, helped restore its texture. Since then, I’ve used it on lampshades, pillows, and more. The revelation was by far the lampshades - the disposable dusters only seemed to smash the dust around, whereas the bristle brush got rid of it. (Bonus tip: For hair, I swear by natural bristled Kent Brushes—used by the British Royal Family)

These small swaps are part of a bigger journey—toward intentional living, thoughtful consumption, and creating a home that feels good, inside and out.

If you’re looking to align your home with your values, I’d love to help. Let's set up a personalized interior design consultation to discuss your needs. Please contact me at info@the-silver-lining.com or view my services online.

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